The Women Who Hold Us: Honoring Ms. Merchant and Woodlawn’s Matriarchs

Woodlawn United

March 21, 2025

In Woodlawn, the heartbeat of the community has always been its women—the mothers, sisters, neighbors, and leaders who show up not only during celebrations, but in the everyday work of care. These are the women who hold families together, check on neighbors, decorate for holidays, and serve food with love. One of those women was Ms. Merchant.

A true matriarch, Ms. Merchant served as vice president of the Oak Ridge Park Neighborhood Association and president of the Harris Homes Resident Council. Her leadership was steady, hands-on, and rooted in pride. “She was always serving,” one neighbor recalled. “Always cooking, always making sure young women took pride in their community, and felt like where they lived mattered.”

She believed beauty and dignity should be part of everyday life, no matter your zip code. One of her most remembered sayings was, “It ain’t where you live, and you don’t have to have a whole lot of money. Just take pride in where you live and show concern for your community.” Whether organizing clean-up days or adding festive touches to porches, she helped others feel proud of their surroundings.

Decorating was one of the many ways she expressed care. At Harris Homes, she brought each season to life with lights, garland, and themed trees. These displays weren’t just decorations—they were reminders that everyone deserves to celebrate where they live.

At Oliver Elementary, where her grandchildren attended, Ms. Merchant was more than a familiar face. She volunteered at events, brought dresses for Black History Month programs, and made sure families knew when to join their children for Thanksgiving meals. When the fifth-grade class didn’t have white outfits for graduation, she gathered dresses, shirts, shoes, and accessories so every child could participate with pride. “There was nothing we couldn’t ask of her,” a staff member shared.

She also carried a sense of humor that stayed with people. She once called her stroller—used to carry supplies to and from events—her “Cadillac.” That small, joyful moment captured her spirit: resourceful, proud, and full of personality.

Even as she got older, she kept showing up in the ways she could. When she became ill, the school community sent her flowers. She sat on her porch smiling, surrounded by love.

Her absence at Sunday Dinner last year was deeply felt. “I looked into the crowd and she wasn’t there. That was hard,” one community leader said. “She had always been there.”

She was active in the PTA, brought treats for Teacher Appreciation Week, and always made sure the residents of Harris Homes were seen, supported, and included in conversations that too often left them out.

In a world where public housing communities are frequently overlooked, Ms. Merchant reminded us that leadership begins with presence. She was there. She cared. And her impact remains.

Woodlawn has always been carried by women like her—those who lead with heart, build trust, and care deeply for their neighbors. Women like Doris Jones, Vanessa Jones, Angela Washington, Marilyn Creer, Barnetta Eberhart, Brenda Holifield, Dr. Bertha Nettles, Alberteen Caver, Cassandra Allen, Rosalind Ashe-Gay, Joyce Thomas, Yolanda Flowers, Teretia Jones, Brenda Pettaway, Helen Davis, Valencia King, and Darlena King have each played meaningful roles in shaping the community’s story. Their dedication and presence continue to inspire.

This Women’s History Month, we celebrate them all—the women we name, the women we remember, the women we see in every neighbor who gives their time, serves with care, and helps others rise. We also honor those whose names are not always spoken—the unseen women who shape our communities in quiet, powerful ways.

Strong communities are built by strong women. In Woodlawn, we honor their presence, their power, and the paths they’ve cleared for others.

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